Life Is Not A Stagnant Line

Humans are prone to think or imagine a life where everything is smooth. But life is not a stagnant line, where it runs in one direction or where everything goes the way you want it to.

Like day has night, light has dark even life has the other side. Uncertainty is part of human life. But as soon as the circumstances and situations are not in our favor we start panicking, we are stressed, disappointment engulfs us, sadness becomes part of us, we lose hope, and we start to complain. But life never promised you a stagnant line, and it can never promise you as well. Life comes with ups and downs and it can be in any area of your life. Life may not be able to promise you a stagnant line but you can make a promise to yourself that you are not letting any situations or circumstances overpower you. There may exist Problems, difficulties, and hardships but even in that difficult situations there lies a silver lining.

Every instance, every event that unfolds before you brings a lesson and strength to you. But when you let those situations subdue you, seeing those silver linings becomes almost impossible. It is important to face your problems, and your circumstances and not to let them conquer you.

Maybe you were planning for your goals or you were heading with a plan to start something or was thinking about a bond or relations and an uncertainty hits you, or you face the sudden loss of someone. You don’t have control over the situation, and not every problem has immediate solutions but you can control your reactions to it. The covid 19 pandemic that we all faced, our lives were affected drastically and we didn’t have any control over the situations. But everyone took and is taking measures and precautions that we need to, many handled the situation by controlling their reactions and didn’t let this overpower them. Many tried to see the silver lining even in such situations, they make the best use of quarantine, and they learn the lessons that this pandemic had brought along with it.

Humans will react to uncertainty with disappointment, stress, and sadness and at times grieving, and feeling those moments is necessary but what is not encouraged is to lose hope or to let those situations control you. Feel the moment but bounce back with strength, life has endless possibilities and life is very beautiful, nothing can change this fact. If anything needs to be changed at this moment it is the way you look at those circumstances. If there is darkness, there is a silver lining, focus on this, and darkness won’t cause you to stress anymore.

Unfavorable circumstances are not welcome but when they come you need to stand strong, you need to focus on what this situation is trying to teach you or what it has brought along with it, and accept the fact that life is not a stagnant line.